Sunday, March 3, 2019

Emotion of Attachment

We all have attachments.

We all get attached to someone or something all our life, every day, every minute, every second.

It just takes a moment to feel that emotion of attachment but it sometime takes a lifetime to detach from it, and sometimes may be even our last breath would not suffice to get us over that attachment.

Emotion of Attachment.....................................

It is not just we human beings feel this emotion of attachment, even animals and birds feel this attachment and much stronger they feel this emotion than we human beings.

However, having attachment is good when it is in its control, especially when you are attached to bad habits, or a person who does not feel the same feeling of attachment.

Attachment hurts!

Attachments can bring you down if you do not realize your limitations and boundaries.

That is why experienced people say "The less attached you are, the most peaceful you are."

Often, it is so true in life that the most attached people and things are the ones to bring you down.You never get there to the fullest of happiness from the attached people and things. May be to some extent, at the least attached things do not disappoint you as much as humans.

If you like your car and you are attached to it, you tend to take care of it much better and the car in turn will never let you down, it is in good condition and lasts long, gives you happiness when you take it on drives and flaunt it off.

Let us take it to a person whom you are attached, you never know! That person may not be attached to you at the same level,. the person may be attached but over time may not be at the same level of attachment as you do and you are left empty still attached to the person.....Worst is, when the person is no more and that is the hardest of time to live moments without this attached person.


There are live people around us right now too and may be you and me too victim of this attachment.
90% of the 100 times, we are disappointed by this attachment.

Life is so unfair to imbibe in us these emotions of attachment and never told you and me how to keep a check on this attachment and it does take a toll on our own self at some point of time.

Strange isn't it but this is the truth which we all find it so hard to live with.

Although, we have evolved to the world of chat-bots, the emotion of attachment eats up every person on this planet at some point of time in our life!

It is the hardest way you and me learn that "Attachment is another name of disappointment and pain."

Such an irony that humans can experience only 7 emotions (as per what is put up on Google), I think, in our lifetime, based by every person's life, experience, sensitivity, feelings, energies, a human is capable to feel uncountable emotions.
Each person has a different emotion, emotion at different levels and only the person experiencing it can feel the depth of it, the meaning of it.


Attachment is one such emotion that every person claims to have experienced it at some point of time in life. Few are capable of getting over it, few deep dive in it, few live with it, few hurt by it, and few crave for it all their life.

The sooner we all realize that "Attachments are good only over emails and not in real life", we will save our lives from being sink in to this swirl.

Let us live by with the flow of life, as I always say "life is meaningless and empty", just live in the flow, spread happiness, do not cling to anyone or anything because the moment the universe knows you want it badly, most of the time "You can only lose what you cling to".

Live in the moment, live in that emotion for that moment and pass by. Nothing can hurt you then and rather life becomes more meaningful.

Well, I know it is not easy as said, I am also in this journey of emotion of attachment and I am keeping my baby steps to detach with it.

How many of you are in this journey along with me? :)

Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Life is meaningless and empty

With a heavy heart,

Trying to understand,
Life is meaningless and empty!!

In this temporary existence,
The hardest truth needed to accept
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Wanting everyone for ever in this temporary life
Wanting everything for ever in this temporary life
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Loved ones touch my heart every time I am with them
Never realized that, those loved moments could be a temporary stay in my life
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Lived those moments like they gonna be this lovable forever
Happiness overwhelmed, felt blessed
Life is meaningless and empty!!

One day, it all changed....
Those lovable moments did not remain the same anymore
Life is meaningless and empty!!

There I stand, as the same person longing for that love
Lovable moments did not remain the same
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Feeling in me, what where those moments??
Did I attach more strings and colors to it than what was needed??
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Here I stand, wanting those loved ones and moments the same way for all my life....
Personalities change over time and here I live, trying to understand
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Although, it is not something I have control off
I still look further for those loved ones and moments
Life is meaningless and empty!!

First moments

I saw your profile picture,
I was caught at it just at one sight
I checked your profile to know you more,
Was it like or infatuation....

I gazed back and forth at your pictures,
Never felt this feeling before towards any one at first sight of a picture,
I saw you online,
I made up my mind to text you,
Was it like or infatuation....

I was juggling what to say,
"Hi".. "Your picture is impressive", "Heya, how you doing",
I typed "Hey, coffee lover, how you doing",
Was it like or infatuation...

I was eager for your reply,
I waited for seconds, minutes just to get your reply,
Here you say, "Iam good, wazzup,
Was it like or infatuation...

 The very first message of yours made me smile,
I liked that feeling, continued to text you all the way hours together,
Asked her out for a meetup over the weekend,
Was it like or infatuation...

Worried about her response,
Waited again for hours just to hear a yes from her,
She got me all smiley again by saying "yes",
Was it like or infatuation...

We meet and it was first of the kind ever where I felt blushed seeing her,
It was not just me but she too felt as if we connected from long,
Our conversations was sparkling,
Was it like or infatuation...

It was not just our first meet but turned out to be a perfect date,
We lived in the moment like it was just she and me in the coffee shop,
We laughed, spoke aloud, smiled mischievously, Wow moments!
Was it like or infatuation...

It was time for us to leave for the day or rather for her,
I wished time stopped by and not let us depart for the moment,
I longed to meet her again and I secretly wished she too felt the same,
Was it like or infatuation....

Went along all the way to be with her for until she reached her cocoon,
With no further wait, I expressed my wish to meet her again,
I longed to see her again, felt my mind and heart wanting to be with her,
Was it like or infatuation......

Was it like or infatuation.....
My first meet up moments with "her"....
Was it like or infatuation....


Life is meaningless and empty

With a heavy heart,

Trying to understand,
Life is meaningless and empty!!

In this temporary existence,
The hardest truth needed to accept
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Wanting everyone for ever in this temporary life
Wanting everything for ever in this temporary life
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Loved ones touch my heart every time I am with them
Never realized that, those loved moments could be a temporary stay in my life
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Lived those moments like they gonna be this lovable forever
Happiness overwhelmed, felt blessed
Life is meaningless and empty!!

One day, it all changed....
Those lovable moments did not remain the same anymore
Life is meaningless and empty!!

There I stand, as the same person longing for that love
Lovable moments did not remain the same
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Feeling in me, what where those moments??
Did I attach more strings and colors to it than what was needed??
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Here I stand, wanting those loved ones and moments the same way for all my life....
Personalities change over time and here I live, trying to understand
Life is meaningless and empty!!

Although, it is not something I have control off
I still look further for those loved ones and moments
Life is meaningless and empty!!



Saturday, February 16, 2019

Boulevard of broken dreams

This was one my favorite music in my college days. And yet again today, the lyrics is soo meaningful and stands right!! I walk alone......
I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don't know where it goes
But it's only me, and I walk alone
I walk this empty street
On the boulevard of broken dreams
Where the city sleeps
And I'm the only one, and I walk alone
I walk alone, I walk alone
I walk alone and I walk a
My shadow's the only one that walks beside me
My shallow heart's the only thing that's beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me
Till then I walk alone
Ah ah ah ah ah
Ah ah ah ah ah
I'm walking down the line
That divides me somewhere in my mind
On the border line of the edge
And where I walk alone
Read between the lines
What's fucked up and every thing's all right
Check my vital signs to know I'm still alive
And I walk alone
I walk alone, I walk alone
I walk

Friday, January 25, 2019

Being an individualistic

Hi there,
I personally believe that I am an individualist.
I set my rules, my likes, dislikes, opinions, and decisions.
I am an individualist....

Humans out there with same mindset, embrace me.
Yet there are those who find me hard headed.
I am an individualist....

I enjoy my own company.
I do not look around for others to bring smile on my face.
I am an individualist.....

I live in my dream world, where all my wishes comes true.
I wander if I belong to this earth or some other planet.
I am an individualist....

A question that lingers my mind all the time.
If I am brought to this planet, then do I need to immerse myself with humans.
Or do I continue to be an individualist.....

I am an individualist....... :)

Emotion of Attachment

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