We all have attachments.
We all get attached to someone or something all our life, every day, every minute, every second.
It just takes a moment to feel that emotion of attachment but it sometime takes a lifetime to detach from it, and sometimes may be even our last breath would not suffice to get us over that attachment.
Emotion of Attachment.....................................
It is not just we human beings feel this emotion of attachment, even animals and birds feel this attachment and much stronger they feel this emotion than we human beings.
However, having attachment is good when it is in its control, especially when you are attached to bad habits, or a person who does not feel the same feeling of attachment.
Attachment hurts!
Attachments can bring you down if you do not realize your limitations and boundaries.
That is why experienced people say "The less attached you are, the most peaceful you are."
Often, it is so true in life that the most attached people and things are the ones to bring you down.You never get there to the fullest of happiness from the attached people and things. May be to some extent, at the least attached things do not disappoint you as much as humans.
If you like your car and you are attached to it, you tend to take care of it much better and the car in turn will never let you down, it is in good condition and lasts long, gives you happiness when you take it on drives and flaunt it off.
Let us take it to a person whom you are attached, you never know! That person may not be attached to you at the same level,. the person may be attached but over time may not be at the same level of attachment as you do and you are left empty still attached to the person.....Worst is, when the person is no more and that is the hardest of time to live moments without this attached person.
There are live people around us right now too and may be you and me too victim of this attachment.
90% of the 100 times, we are disappointed by this attachment.
Life is so unfair to imbibe in us these emotions of attachment and never told you and me how to keep a check on this attachment and it does take a toll on our own self at some point of time.
Strange isn't it but this is the truth which we all find it so hard to live with.
Although, we have evolved to the world of chat-bots, the emotion of attachment eats up every person on this planet at some point of time in our life!
It is the hardest way you and me learn that "Attachment is another name of disappointment and pain."
Such an irony that humans can experience only 7 emotions (as per what is put up on Google), I think, in our lifetime, based by every person's life, experience, sensitivity, feelings, energies, a human is capable to feel uncountable emotions.
Each person has a different emotion, emotion at different levels and only the person experiencing it can feel the depth of it, the meaning of it.
Attachment is one such emotion that every person claims to have experienced it at some point of time in life. Few are capable of getting over it, few deep dive in it, few live with it, few hurt by it, and few crave for it all their life.
The sooner we all realize that "Attachments are good only over emails and not in real life", we will save our lives from being sink in to this swirl.
Let us live by with the flow of life, as I always say "life is meaningless and empty", just live in the flow, spread happiness, do not cling to anyone or anything because the moment the universe knows you want it badly, most of the time "You can only lose what you cling to".
Live in the moment, live in that emotion for that moment and pass by. Nothing can hurt you then and rather life becomes more meaningful.
Well, I know it is not easy as said, I am also in this journey of emotion of attachment and I am keeping my baby steps to detach with it.
How many of you are in this journey along with me? :)
We all get attached to someone or something all our life, every day, every minute, every second.
It just takes a moment to feel that emotion of attachment but it sometime takes a lifetime to detach from it, and sometimes may be even our last breath would not suffice to get us over that attachment.
Emotion of Attachment.....................................
It is not just we human beings feel this emotion of attachment, even animals and birds feel this attachment and much stronger they feel this emotion than we human beings.
However, having attachment is good when it is in its control, especially when you are attached to bad habits, or a person who does not feel the same feeling of attachment.
Attachment hurts!
Attachments can bring you down if you do not realize your limitations and boundaries.
That is why experienced people say "The less attached you are, the most peaceful you are."
Often, it is so true in life that the most attached people and things are the ones to bring you down.You never get there to the fullest of happiness from the attached people and things. May be to some extent, at the least attached things do not disappoint you as much as humans.
If you like your car and you are attached to it, you tend to take care of it much better and the car in turn will never let you down, it is in good condition and lasts long, gives you happiness when you take it on drives and flaunt it off.
Let us take it to a person whom you are attached, you never know! That person may not be attached to you at the same level,. the person may be attached but over time may not be at the same level of attachment as you do and you are left empty still attached to the person.....Worst is, when the person is no more and that is the hardest of time to live moments without this attached person.
There are live people around us right now too and may be you and me too victim of this attachment.
90% of the 100 times, we are disappointed by this attachment.
Life is so unfair to imbibe in us these emotions of attachment and never told you and me how to keep a check on this attachment and it does take a toll on our own self at some point of time.
Strange isn't it but this is the truth which we all find it so hard to live with.
Although, we have evolved to the world of chat-bots, the emotion of attachment eats up every person on this planet at some point of time in our life!
It is the hardest way you and me learn that "Attachment is another name of disappointment and pain."
Such an irony that humans can experience only 7 emotions (as per what is put up on Google), I think, in our lifetime, based by every person's life, experience, sensitivity, feelings, energies, a human is capable to feel uncountable emotions.
Each person has a different emotion, emotion at different levels and only the person experiencing it can feel the depth of it, the meaning of it.
Attachment is one such emotion that every person claims to have experienced it at some point of time in life. Few are capable of getting over it, few deep dive in it, few live with it, few hurt by it, and few crave for it all their life.
The sooner we all realize that "Attachments are good only over emails and not in real life", we will save our lives from being sink in to this swirl.
Let us live by with the flow of life, as I always say "life is meaningless and empty", just live in the flow, spread happiness, do not cling to anyone or anything because the moment the universe knows you want it badly, most of the time "You can only lose what you cling to".
Live in the moment, live in that emotion for that moment and pass by. Nothing can hurt you then and rather life becomes more meaningful.
Well, I know it is not easy as said, I am also in this journey of emotion of attachment and I am keeping my baby steps to detach with it.
How many of you are in this journey along with me? :)
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